{"id":5145,"date":"2024-03-20T20:35:05","date_gmt":"2024-03-20T20:35:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.iwabogdani.org\/?post_type=product&p=5145"},"modified":"2024-03-21T22:05:57","modified_gmt":"2024-03-21T22:05:57","slug":"the-dawn-of-my-life-pjeter-meta-perpalaj","status":"publish","type":"product","link":"https:\/\/www.iwabogdani.org\/sq\/produkt\/the-dawn-of-my-life-pjeter-meta-perpalaj\/","title":{"rendered":"THE DAWN OF MY LIFE -PJET\u00cbR META (P\u00cbRPALAJ)-"},"content":{"rendered":"

Book title: The Dawn of My Life<\/strong>
\n(The Noble Woman) novel
\nAuthor: Pjet\u00ebr Meta (Perpalaj)<\/strong>
\nReviewer: Prof. Kristaq F. Shabani IWA
\nTranslated in English :
\nDritan D. Kardhashi, WPS
\nLiterary proof-reader:
\nMajlinda Shabani (Aleksandra)
\nGraphic design:
\nElvira \u00c7iraku
\n\u00a9 Copyright 2023 by Pjet\u00ebr Meta (Perpalaj) , 2023
\nAll publishing rights in English reserved
\nThe publication of this monograph was made possible by
\nAleks P\u00ebrpalaj
\nThe book has been prepared under the care of IAPWA
\n\u201cPegasi\u201d Albania
\nLibri u p\u00ebrgatit n\u00ebn kujdesin e LNPSHA \u201cPEGASI\u201d ALBANIA
\nISBN: 978-9928-4803-2-3<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Instead of the preface<\/strong><\/p>\n

In my memory, as a deeply embedded dream, which cannot be forgotten, a multitude of book themes with a thirst to write have taken place. These themes always moved in my mind, in no particular order, and they began to unfold throughout my life, weaved with new themes, in accordance with the events of time, which were plenty. The only one, which is not part of the \u201cregister\u201d of early
\nmemory, is the book about my contemporary life… It had a special thematic object: It will be dedicated entirely to my
\nwife. But, being together for six decades, I can\u2019t avoid, in any way, life descriptions for myself, where every episode,
\nevent, occurence is related to her far or distant, bitter or sweet, in favor or not of our life … The theme of this book
\nwas prompted or born late, when we were nearing 76 years of life and 60 years of our celebrated marriage.
\nFor this proximity of years of life with marriage, many may \u201creject\u201d it as unreal, but I, with this brief explanation,
\nwill not reveal details of life to undermine or quench curiosity, before the last page of the reading \u201cfall\u201d from the
\nbook. I thought that, simply, in this treatment, I would explain the reasons why the whole theme, including its
\nessence, will be dedicated to my bright, the blossom of my life, Age, the name associated with \u2018agmi\u2019, my beloved wife,
\nwho honored and respected me in every situation, in every attitude of mine related with her.
\nThe theme of the book, already clearly defined to be written on its front page, will be \u201cThe Dawn of my Life\u201d
\n(The Noble one). In this book, with a real theme, there will be real characters, who have been part of this splendid life,
\naccording to my definition. The characters of this book are treated without embellishments and excesses, but
\ndescribed as a normal life of development, which prologues, from the first day, when we received the great news of our
\nengagement, until the day, when I put down on paper this extensive \u201celaboration\u201d of life. This book of the realistic
\nnovel genre deals with events and episodes over the years that were actually experienced, without the need for
\nmany characters, or made up, nor their embellishments or exaggerations. Every single person, in life, has the desire to write
\ndown his life, its episodes and especially the traces he or she leaves behind. But my intention and motivation to
\nwrite in this genre, a realistic novel with my wife as the main character, is simply to present to the reader the great
\nart, dynamism, ingenuity of a woman in life, who has very much emphasized the art of respect, motivation, harmony,
\ntoleration, restrain and coping with her husband and others, at work, with superiors and subordinates, in the
\ncompany of friends and up to the highest leadership of the state, with whom she has had contact.
\nI must clearly indicate, first of all, that in my life, there is no one better than my wife. But, compared to the rest of
\nthe knowledgeable part of the society, I have not been able to balance her with anyone, inside or outside my kin, with those special and prominent qualities manifested by her, balancing, with whomever She has had contact at work or in her life, in society and in the family and in any situation. In my life experience I have known courageous women who are stable, women with strong and invincible
\ncharacter, in front of unfavorable positions, intellectual women who left you speechless for their intelligence and
\noratory, model women in behavior with their husbands and children, seductive women, who, due to their agreeable character they attracted the others, receiving afterwards the best human estimations; I have known women in various difficulties in economic, family, health and government relations. I have known women with many troubles in life, from the most diverse, with possible
\nways out and difficult ways out. As I have known women of different natures and characters, who were \u201cread\u201d very
\neasily, with little difficulty, with great difficulty or even those who were impossible to analyze their features, their
\ncharacteristics. Regarding the female characters, as well as the experiences of everything, troubles and problems during
\nlife, my Age, would resemble all those female categories, as a typical representation of them, but also as a special
\nunique woman. She and I, together, tried all these, lived and enjoyed all these, according to the way of construction
\nand selection, in accordance with the nature, as how they came to us, from outside, or from us as self-beginners.
\nEvery episode of relationships, every personal problem of mine or both of us, internal or external, every personal
\nor family problem, every problem with the state, every threshold of goodness or lucky perspective, my wife gave
\nthem, not only a solution, but also the last hand, as an end.
\nShe melted as active defining \u201ccharacters\u201d and became one with the episodes, always interpreting the positive
\nrole, encountering not only the negative phenomenon of the case, but stopping, analyzing and extracting the total
\ntruth, in confrontation with the experience of her life, not only with the negative phenomenon of the case, but
\nby confronting and completely removing from her life those negative characters who were \u201cinitiators\u201d or had
\nthe objective of wrongdoing. In other words, for 60 years, my wife with her strength, endurance and resistance, but
\nalso with her initiative, courage and clear vision to walk the family path towards joys and happiness, She can
\nbe compared to a \u201cship\u201d. in the middle of the sea, which withstands the storms but also the great calm without
\nwaves, under the sun\u2019s rays, which warms the soul, enjoying everything that comes after.
\nThroughout the life span of these 60 years together, despite the insufficient education, because of economic
\nimpossibility, she was left an orphan at the age of 8, I found her focus, care and attention to learn and embrace the
\nprogressive new, to learn everything that would serve for a better and more comfortable life in the existing conditions,
\nto learn even to speak, the use of words and social, official or regional-dialect communication. She, with a
\nperfectly focused attention, followed the conversation and communication with the local and central leaders, adapting
\nherself very intelligently to the conversation, through self correction or finding the answers, as they required or
\nfitted them. In any case, afterwards, she also received their evaluations and opinion: \u201cWhat a good woman!
\nI have never been present at work and during work, nor the contacts she had with the \u201cmajors\u201d, cadres, such
\nas the First Secretary, the Chairman of the Assembly, members of the Political Bureau, the Chairman and Vice\u0002Chairman of the Council of Ministers, with Secretaries of the Committee and those in the Congresses, where she participated, but, afterwards, her appearance, behavior, service and official and social communication, I and our society have learned constantly later, as a woman of great balance, clever, and of great authority, and I rejoiced. I rejoiced because she was walking and progressing even
\nthough she did not have the necessary education to deal with people of these ranks. I was glad that she was learning by finding the language of communication with anyone. I was glad that my beloved, my wife, had an innate intelligence; she had a magical adaptation to people and situations, she had an assimilable appearance at first, but after the gratitude of the circle or individual, who, at the
\nthe very first glance, she won their hearts, she showed them her appreciation, always receiving the response:
\n\u201cShe is a very good and right-minded woman\u201d. Historically, after the first decade of marriage, except in various jobs,
\nduring eight hours, we have spent all the rest of the time together, without being separated, everywhere, on walks,
\nin meetings, in visits to friends and colleagues, in distant and close trips. The question is rightly raised: \u201cWho was
\nthe final external evaluation for both of us, from those we met and talked to?\u201d
\n\u201cYou are very noble man, but your wife is more than a noble woman.\u201d From childhood, as I have learned from her
\nparents, after we married, and then started joint life, she was valued as a person with special and stable traits and
\ncharacter. Without the need, at all, for superlatives, the most defining evaluation is given by my friends and colleagues,
\nwho loved her as a sister, because She, all of them and at all times, appeared with her husband and four children.
\nAs a mother\u2019s position, towards children, I don\u2019t want to comment, since between them there is love without end,
\nlove for life. A short comment deserves the reservation of everything humane that she dedicated to her husband,
\nregardless of the fact that he (I), \u201ccalled\u201d to himself and his wife, the presence of bad, even dramatic situations.
\nShe overcame the pain with her stoicism of strong character and she had the strength to smile as if nothing
\nhad happened. With a rare sweetness of communication, which one could hardly find, she gave you courage and
\nhope, healing the wound, as if by magic, with two or three words: \u201cDon\u2019t worry, because you have Age Zefe with you!\u201d
\nOr, even more hope and confidence for overcoming the situation: \u201cWith Age Zefe we will overcome everything!\u201d,
\n\u201cYou will see how easily we will succeed in this situation\u201d, etcetera, etcetera. No matter how the sorrow came from
\ninside or outside, small or big, She was capable to find so much human dignity and strength in the soul and heart
\nthat she brought us complete relief of spiritual suffering. Even when her husband (I) would risk prison by going to
\nits doors, or when we were both fired from our jobs, she found the courage to continue living in those conditions,
\ncalming the souls (mine and children\u00b4s) with the words: \u201cRemember my words, everything will turn out for better\u201d
\n(i.e. remember my words). Age Zefe dedicated her life and soul to her children and her husband, without sparing
\nherself, She overcame all, during six decades, the good and the bitter, making possible the good upbringing and
\neducation of three sons and a daughter with the best human virtues, and, therefore, bringing us a very comfortable and very satisfying end of life. Thanks to her rare qualities and virtues and her comprehensive care, we managed to create
\na model family for the time, a model for all ages, a model and example for today\u2019s youth and as a model of a life with
\nmany complications, for anyone who will be able to read this book.
\nThe author<\/em><\/strong>
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